What do you mean, “No”? I want them.
How frustrating it is to realize that what we think is right and good isn’t necessarily right or good. The world tells us to “trust ourselves”, our instincts. Yes?
Truthfully, no.
Proverbs 3:5-6 instructs us to
5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.”
That’s why we need to pray, Lord, teach me your ways. Teach me your paths. Teach me what is best for me. Keep me open to learning and being corrected by You because otherwise,
I am a fool.
My reality is tainted. God’s reality is truth. I want to be healthy, wise, and strong in Him. Because God does not force wisdom on us. He does allow us to make choices and live with their consequences. Who of us doesn’t know that….I sure do.
Even with good upbringing, there’s no guarantee that our own kids will heed all our warnings, is there? I was sure my parents didn’t really get me. My husband and I laugh that even though our families growing up took different approaches to eating sweets, we ended up with the same cursed sweet tooth. At my house, there wasn’t really a limit but goodies weren’t around all of the time. In his house, the rule was you could have one, maybe two cookies and that was it. Neither of us learned moderation, though we could have, because we didn’t want to. We knew better…. and now as adults we struggle all of the time to eat well. We could have listened to our parents and saved ourselves a lot of struggle later in our lives. But, no, we were sure we knew best.
Although that may seem a rather humorous example, down deep, it really isn’t that funny. God reminds us so often in the Bible about the way we should live life. He is the Good Father. Perhaps He at times can sound like we do with our kids…you didn’t pack a lunch? Go do it. You’ll never have enough energy without it. You packed what….a block of cheese and a bag of cookies?! I don’t think so! Do it again, vary the contents! Where did the second bag of chips go? Why are there wrappers in your room? Let’s go over this again, the night before works really well to pack our lunches for school. And on. And on. And on. We don’t give up because we love our kids and we want them healthy and wise.
Likewise, God does that with us. Whether it’s food or rest or relationships or how we view God, whatever it is, He continues to remind us what is right and best. You’re spending too much time and energy here, let’s adjust. No, you don’t really need that, do you? Hand it over. You need to meet with me, how about now? And on and on He goes. Praise God He does that. He loves us too much to allow us to head to destruction because we are thinking poorly or deceived.
Like a child should heed his parent, let’s heed God. Let’s ask God for His way of seeing life, our job, friends and family, pleasure, pain, sorrow, all of it. We feel we get life and that our viewpoint is right Yet, Proverbs 14: 12 tell us,
There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.
But, we can be encouraged because James 1:5 reminds us
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.